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Would You Start on a Trip Without Using GPS?

Don’t start on the Road to Adoption without a roadmap!

Think of Domestic Adoption Coach as your adoption GPS, guiding you to your adoption destination.

In an ideal world, the road to adoption would be straightforward: you’d choose a local agency, sign up, and wait for the call. Unfortunately, the reality is much more complex. Being passive or uninformed about the process can lead to costly mistakes, unnecessary risks, unexpected delays or in the worst-case scenario, being unable to adopt at all.

As your adoption coach my goal is to make the road to adoption smoother, more informed, and less overwhelming, so you can focus on building the family you’ve been dreaming of.

Let’s talk! I am sure you will learn something from our conversation.

Cindy Simonson

About Me

My name is Cindy Simonson, and I am an adoptive mother with over 27 years of experience helping families navigate the adoption process. As the founder of A Loving Alternative Adoptions, I played a role in the creation of more than 800 families and personally spoke with thousands of women facing unplanned pregnancies. These experiences have given me unique insights into both sides of the adoption process.
When my husband Jim and I began our adoption journey, we were full of hope and open hearts. However, we quickly discovered how overwhelming and complex the process could be. That realization inspired me to dedicate my life to guiding and supporting others on the path to adoption.

Many families transitioning from infertility are unprepared for how domestic adoption works. Without the right education and guidance, they often face unnecessary delays, avoidable expenses, and immense frustration. Misinformation or a passive approach can result in missed opportunities, wasted resources, and longer waits.

That’s where I come in. As your Domestic Adoption Coach, I provide personalized guidance, practical tools, and the education you need to navigate your adoption with confidence. Together, we’ll design a step-by-step adoption plan tailored to your unique situation, simplifying the process and eliminating much of  the stress.

With decades of hands-on experience and personal understanding, I know firsthand the emotions and challenges of adopting. My goal is to ensure your journey is smooth, informed, and ultimately successful.

As your Domestic Adoption Coach, I work directly with you every step of the way—providing one-on-one support, honest advice, and clear direction. Together, we’ll create a roadmap to adoption success, empowering you to move forward with confidence and peace of mind.

Services Offered

Initial Phone Consultation

We start with a personalized phone consultation to discuss your adoption journey so far and explore your adoption dreams and goals. This conversation allows me to better understand your unique path and how I can best support you.

During this session, I will:

  • Provide a clear overview of the domestic adoption process and the key requirements for success.
  • Review the type of child you hope to adopt and your preferences.
  • Explain the realities and risks of domestic adoption to set clear and realistic expectations.
  • Evaluate your adoption budget and risk tolerance to guide informed decision-making.
  • Answer all your questions with honesty and transparency.
  • Offer compassionate guidance to address your hopes, fears, and aspirations.

Personalized Action Plan

After gaining a deep understanding of your needs, I’ll create a tailored plan to help you navigate the adoption process with confidence:

  • Provide step-by-step action items tailored to your adoption goals.
  • Provide referrals to trusted adoption professionals, such as attorneys and agencies, from my nationwide network.
  • Provide important questions to ask before hiring any professional to ensure you make informed choices.

Guidance on Creating Your Adoption Marketing Materials

Having compelling and up-to-date marketing materials is a critical component of successful adoption. I’ll ensure you’re equipped with modern tools and the latest strategies to stand out.

  • A simple profile is no longer enough; a comprehensive digital presence can greatly expand your outreach.
  • I will make sure you have the latest marketing materials to help you widen your outreach.
  • Connect you with marketing professionals to bring your story to life through video, personal websites, and social media pages that engage.

Tools and Resources to Reduce the Cost of Adopting

Adoption can be expensive, but I’ll help you reduce costs and avoid financial pitfalls.

This includes:

  • Steps to prevent duplicate or unnecessary expenses.
  • Guidance on identifying and avoiding adoption scams.
  • Strategies to minimize the risk of a failed adoption.
  • Resources and tips for funding your adoption, if needed.

Matching Support

Matching with an expectant mother is a pivotal step in the adoption process. I’ll guide you in actively connecting with potential matches rather than passively waiting.

This includes:

  • Advice on all available matching options to increase your chances of success.
  • A detailed analysis of the pros and cons of each option.
  • Access to matching resources and services with proven success rates.
  • Tips to avoid upfront fees, unrealistic promises, and under-resourced professionals.

Guidance After Being Chosen by a Potential Birth Mother

Once you’ve been selected by a potential birth mother, I’ll provide continued support to ensure the process moves forward smoothly.

This includes:

  • Tips on handling initial contacts, what to say and what to avoid.
  • Serving as a sounding board to address your questions, concerns, and thoughts.
  • Conducting a screening call with potential matches and providing detailed feedback.
  • Coordinating with a qualified social worker in the expectant mother's state to:
  • Meet her and address her questions.
  • Evaluate her interest and commitment to moving forward with adoption.

Benefits

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FAQs

Why Work with Domestic Adoption Coach?

If you’re considering domestic adoption, you may be surprised by how confusing and overwhelming the process can be. There are several ways to adopt, figuring out the right path can be daunting—especially if you’re emotionally drained from infertility treatment.

With so much information available, it’s easy to feel lost. Too many options can add stress instead of clarity. That’s where I come in. I listen to your hopes, needs, and expectations, then cut through the noise to create a clear step by step plan just for you.

I’ll help you avoid trial and error, reduce stress, and confidently move forward—on the right path from the start.

Adoption agencies offer valuable services, but choosing one without proper knowledge can be a costly mistake. Without understanding what you need to successfully adopt, you may sign up with an agency that isn’t the right fit for you.

Some agencies provide excellent services but maintain long waiting lists without an active outreach program. This can result in extended delays or, in some cases, never adopting at all. Others charge large upfront fees, adding unnecessary costs to your adoption journey.

It’s essential to know exactly what to look for before committing to an agency. I value the critical role agencies play, but by working with me first, I can help you identify the right agency—one that aligns with your needs and increases your chances of successful adoption.

The home study process typically includes:

  • Criminal background checks
  • Child abuse registry checks
  • Review of financial and medical records
  • Employment verification
  • Reference checks
  • Interviews with a licensed social worker
  • A home visit to ensure a safe and suitable environment

While being screened may feel intimidating, it’s important to remember that this process is in place to protect children. Many expectant mothers considering adoption find this screening reassuring.

The good news is that home study workers are not there to judge you but to support and prepare you. I can refer you to compassionate professionals who will guide you every step of the way, helping you feel confident and ready for this incredible journey. In many cases, your home study worker can even serve as your advocate throughout the adoption process.

Adoption comes with various costs, and one of the first steps in our journey together will be to discuss your adoption budget. I will outline different adoption paths, explaining the average costs associated with each option.

By establishing a clear budget from the start, you’ll be able to make informed decisions and avoid unexpected financial stress. My goal is to help you create a realistic adoption plan that aligns with your budget and financial comfort level.

Adoption expenses can range from $20,000 to $80,000. Without a well-defined budget, you might fall in love with an opportunity that is simply beyond your means—leading to unnecessary disappointment. For example, if your budget is $30,000, it would be heartbreaking to be presented with an $80,000 adoption that isn’t financially feasible.

I will work with you to develop a structured plan that keeps you within your budget while maximizing your chances of successful adoption. Together, we’ll ensure that your adoption is both financially manageable and deeply rewarding.

We will help you understand the adoption tax credit and provide you with many resources that provide adoption grants.

I will provide you with referrals to trusted attorneys in your state to consult with at the beginning of the process. The reason for the consultation is to get an understanding of adoption laws in your state and to see which one you connect with.

In the end you may or may not need an attorney depending on what state you are in and what state the mom you match is in. Some states only allow agency adoptions.

Testimonials

Gerri

“Thank you for everything you did for us. Thanks for taking all my phone calls and keeping me calm. You guys truly provided a blessed service.”

Doug & Melanie

“You really make a difference in so many peoples lives!”

Mark & Nancy

“It’s probably because of this undeniable gift you have to make dreams come true.”

Irista & Roger

“Thank you so much for making our dream come true!”

Birth Mother

“From the very first day we talked, I could hear your concern for my daughter and the placement of her child. We both cannot begin to thank you for your guidance and direction. We were so lost when we found you. You are a guiding light.”

Nancy

“I think about how special you are and how incredibly special it is what you do.”

Mike

“Thank you for all of the hand holding.”

Glenn & Ann

“Thank you again for all your help. (Our daughter) is a delight, a sweetheart and a precious gift.”

Bob & Sherry

“There is an expression somewhere about how God uses people to answer our prayers and we feel like you were that person for us. Thank you for your sensitivity.”

DEBBIE

“(We) are beside ourselves and feel God has blessed us with a healthy, happy baby. we want to give our thanks for having you out there providing a wonderful service to so many. You’re an angel bringing together so many opportuni-ties for both birthmothers and adoptive couples.”

AUDREY

“Thank you so much for what you do for adoption, I was really dreading the experience and you’ve made it so ex citing for us that I can’t even express”

JOHN & KATHI

“Your kindness and support meant a great deal to us. Your sincere, real-world understanding of the adoption process was very reassuring at a time when lawyers and other experts were not helping (with) our outlook and hope.”